The Unexpected “Thank You” (11/20/2024)
- Dr. Kate Wiskus
- Nov 20, 2024
- 2 min read

I frequently visit the Kwik Trip in town for their specials. Yesterday, it was their shredded potatoes for $1.99. I have company this week, and I figured they would come in handy at breakfast. I knew where they were in the store, so I went directly to the refrigerated case. And there they were – on the top shelf and way back! I did the “jump and grab” a couple times before admitting it was clearly out of my reach. So, I began looking for a helper. And a taller woman walked by. I spoke to her, asked for her help, and she was able to reach them without any trouble. I told her, “Thank you so much for helping me.” And she surprised me by saying, “No, thank you for asking me.”
I think I stood at the refrigerated case for a full minute after she walked away. That had never happened to me. I have to ask for help almost daily in stores. She thanked me for bothering her. The more I think about her, the more I wish I knew who she is and could spend more time with her. It was only a 30 second interaction, but it was transformative for me. She showed me a path of graciousness and loving kindness I would like to emulate.
Then this morning, as I was reading the scripture readings for today, I read Jesus’ parable of the talents in the Gospel of Luke. As I pondered the message for me at this point in my journey, the memory of the woman at Kwik Trip yesterday came to mind. She was using what she’d been given, her height, joyfully and generously, and she appreciated the invitation to do so. It was a simple exchange, but it changed me. And I found myself wondering how well I am using the gifts the LORD has entrusted to me. Am I using them fully? Am I using them faithfully? Am I using them joyfully?
Thinking of the woman who helped me, I realized that I have been given so many gifts. My whole life is a gift. So, all that I am and all that makes me “me” are currency in this journey that could be shared with fellow journeyers, with companions on the journey. They may not seem noble, but this journey isn’t about accolades. This journey is about sharing all we are and all we have, breaking ourselves open and giving what we can in the moment for love of the LORD and one another. When my life is done here on this earth, truly I don’t want a part left unused, unshared. What good would it be?
As we go forward in faith, hope and love, let us open ourselves fully to the invitations that come along the way to use our talents, our gifts, ourselves in loving service for the glory of our LORD and the benefit of our sisters and brothers. And at the end, let it be us who utter, “Thank you.”
Until tomorrow, let us all love well.




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