The Halloween Guy (111/01/2025)

My husband’s favorite day of the year, I swear, is Halloween. I never have to remind him. He takes it upon himself to buy the candy in advance to be sure he has his stash in time. And an hour before Trick or Treat begins, he has his bowl of candy, the porch light on, and his smile is right there. Last night was no exception. The Halloween Guy was on duty at our house.

He'd stand inside the door and watch through the window until children walked up our front walk and stepped onto the porch. Then he’d open the door, let them say the obligatory, “Trick or Treat,” he’d smile ever so broadly, and comment on their costumes. He’d hand each one candy bar. And as they left telling him “thank you,” he’d step back inside and get in his place watching for the next group.

I think he likes it because he loves children, their natural honesty, their playful ways. I think he likes it because he’s generous by nature, and he can give without anyone questioning. I think he likes it because unlike Christmas, there aren’t sizes or colors or unrealistic expectations, there are simply happy children and delight from a simple treat. And I think he likes it because unlike other social interactions, this one is short and sweet unlike other holidays that can last all day, and one runs out of things to say.

I do the inside stuff. He takes care of the outdoors stuff. I do Christmas. He does Halloween. Division of labor. It works at our house.

We’re all unique. That’s one of the things I can’t say enough about when I think of the LORD and all the LORD creates and all the ways the LORD calls us to use our gifts for love of Him and for love of others. We each need to find our way, our time, our talents and live well. My husband does an excellent job all year long, but on Halloween night, the little boy in him comes out. I love that smile, I love his way of interacting with the kids. And I love that about the LORD how when we see another being themselves, the LORD opens our hearts even wider.

For everything there is a season. Here’s hoping there will always be a Halloween.

Until tomorrow, let us all love well.